Watching some bad things happen very slowly
In particular, a friend's marriage is slooooowly collapsing...
It makes me mad, and scared, because I think the foundation of their marriage is very strong, but 2020 has been a brute, and they have some ingrained weaknesses... which makes me wonder if the swiss cheese model applies to relationships.
It also reminds me that entropy is bad for marriages as it is, and to keep myself on my A game as much as possible.
The main thing I do wrong is that I default to "No", and what I need to do is default to "Sure, in a second" but it's tricky
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