14.4.23

a bigger thought

  • In his classic book Homo Ludens, the Dutch cultural historian Johan Huizinga (1955) summed up his elaborate definition of play as follows: "Play is a free activity standing quite consciously outside ‘ordinary’ life as being ‘not serious,’ but at the same time absorbing the player intensely and utterly. It is an activity connected with no material interest, and no profit can be gained by it. It proceeds within its own proper boundaries of time and space according to fixed rules and in an orderly manner."
  • In his influential essay, The Role of Play in Development, the Russian psychologist Lev Vygotsky (1978) characterized children’s play as activity that is (a) “desired” by the child, (b) “always involves an imaginary situation,” and (c) “always involves rules” (which are in the minds of the players and may or may not be laid down in advance).
  • In an often-referred-to article on play in the Handbook of Child Psychology, Kenneth Rubin and his colleagues (1983) characterized play as behavior that is (a) intrinsically motivated; (b) focused on means rather than ends; (c) distinct from exploratory behavior; (d) nonliteral (involves pretense), (e) free from externally imposed rules; and (f) actively (not just passively) engaged in by the players.
So I put it to you that worship, or church, is play. 

The only places I'm struggling with it is Huizinga's inclusion of 'not serious' which I think would chafe some worshippers, and Vygotsky and Rubin's inclusion of imagination and pretense, but I think those are very inherent in, in particular, the Eucharist. 

But if you google the purpose or the benefits of play, the case breaks down. So has religion stolen play from us?

Do we need to ensure that our worship meets the needs of play for adults?

15.3.23

Looking back

 https://stealthdachshund.blogspot.com/2013/02/what-i-learned-last-night.html

I went back and read what I was doing 10 years ago.  It was mostly taking care of, and loving, my children. Same same.


So on to work: What do you do when you start to realize your employer's values are not your values? Do you leave? Stay? Pretend? Show up every day, work hard, and get paid?

I think towards the latter, yes?  My expenses aren't going down, so it's not leaving time by any means

13.2.23

Hot Take on Parenting

 Just like a quick thought:


Becoming a parent is one of the ways, one of the points, where you stop being the hero of your life's story. 

It's not the only way, let's be clear, but it's one of them. Anyway.


24.1.23

Vice management... so far, so sustainable?

 

I am master of my domain, these days!

I've made good and steady progress in trying to be a healthier human, and I'm proud of those efforts.

It's not perfect, but man it is very close. Also, I am seeing the corresponding increase in productivity and happiness :D

5.1.23

New year... resolutions?

 Ok, gonna try and take on my vices, a bit, to a bit of a moderation, and increase my self-care as much as possible.

So far, so good! 

This isn't a saintly-virtue endeavor, it's to try and give my meatsack a bit of a rest after Christmas!


20.12.22

Random thought

There is not a mental illness in the world that justifies being abusive. Not one.

1.12.22

Angry me

 

I am tracking something... this is not important


Times you make it about you: iiiii i

Times you ask about others: 

Times you portrayed yourself as the loser/victim: ii

Times you ask for validation: 


See, told you it's not important.